Lena’s story: worthy of family and home
For sixteen years, Lena* lived in a physically and emotionally abusive home. Then she moved into a busy foster home.
Children respond to trauma in different ways, and Lena emerged from childhood as an outside-the-box thinker, highly motivated to succeed. She dreams of having a family and a nice home. She studies history at the university and works at McDonald’s. She’s saving money for the future.
It might look like Lena has everything. But what’s missing?
The answer is that most fundamental human need: Loving relationships. People who listen to her dreams and want the best for her. In childhood, Lena heard that she was worthless and would never succeed. As a teenager she didn’t have close friends. But in Last Bell’s staff, she found people “who always accept you and wait for you.”
Over and over we see how healing relationships draw in our youth. That’s why it’s one of our core values! Lena now comes to the Day Center regularly. She’s attended summer camp twice. She pays attention in life skills and cooking classes, and always asks interesting questions.
And Lena did have one big practical need: safe housing.
In Ukraine, most apartments are owned, not rented. About 20% of our youth inherit housing, and Lena had received a family apartment. But it wasn’t livable.
Last year, our Restoration Project crew began renovating the septic system and bathroom. Lena bought furniture and flooring. The crew installed the flooring this January.
In Ukraine last year, I saw Lena’s apartment under renovation, and met her at the Day Center’s spring cleaning day. It was easy to see that Lena and the other youth were part of a big family, learning together. -Emily M. (Lena not pictured.)
To you who made it all possible, Lena says,
“Thank you for the opportunity to feel wanted, and confident that I have a place to go and someone to turn to for help!”
*Not her real name